A guy might lift hundred pounds of weights but still might have no idea when it comes to talking to girls. But there’s no shame in that. In fact, lots of guys don’t know how to talk to a girl, and especially to a girl they like. 

Not knowing how to talk to girls is one of the main reasons it’s hard for guys to be in a relationship. Let’s admit, it can be quite overwhelming for us guys to talk to a girl we like. 

“Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time.”
—Maya Angelou

But, you shouldn’t let that stop you from getting out there in the world of dating. So, below you will find out some techniques that will help you learn to talk to a girl you like. 

How to talk to a girl you like over text 

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In today’s digital world, texting is as important as talking. So, if you’ve got her number already, it means you’re on the right track, but you might be wondering how to text her.

Here are the 3 effective steps on how to talk to a girl you like over text:

1. Ask questions

Since it is you who is interested in her and not her in you, try asking lots of questions. This will let you know as much information as possible about her. Also, when you ask questions over text, it will seem like you’re really interested in her.

2. Keep it playful

You don’t want to talk about life and serious things when you start texting a girl you like. It will just turn off the mood. Instead, try talking about things that are just normal and simple. 

3. Send flirty texts

If you want her to know that you like her, then you’ve got to show it to her. And what’s the best way to show your affection for someone than with a flirty text. So, send flirty texts and jokes to show that you’re interested in her.

Also Read: How to Attract a Girl like a Gentleman: 7 Techniques

How to talk to a girl you like on the phone 

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Not every girl likes to talk over text, there are lots of girls who prefer a phone call to a text. So, you’ve got to be ready for anything when you call her (or if you’re lucky when she calls you). 

Here are the 3 strong tips to talk to a girl on the phone:

1. Listen

In the same way as texting, you need to ask her questions and listen to her responses. We all know how girls love to talk. So, the first rule is to speak less and listen more. You need to show her that you can be patient and listen to what she’s saying.

2. Don’t talk for hours

When you talk to a girl for a long time on the phone, you’ll just make her exhausted. You don’t want to present yourself as a desperate man. Instead, be the first one to hang up, which will create a thrill in her to want to talk to you more.

3. Speak normally

Now, lots of guys make a common mistake when talking to a girl on the phone. They try to sound like someone they’re not, they speak in different voices and accents. My advice to you is to be yourself, and speak normally like you do every day. 

Also Read: “Why Am I Still Single?” 7 Reasons You’re Still Single

How to talk to a girl you like for the first time

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I know what it feels like to talk to a girl you like for the first time, it can be terrifying. You don’t know what to say and how to start the conversation when you’re meeting her the first time. But don’t worry, it’s not that hard.

Here are the 3 advice to talk to a girl you like for the first time:

1. Break that ice

We all know that awkward moment where none of us can start the conversation. And, the longer you wait to start a conversation, the more likely you won’t do it. You don’t have to say something deep and important. Just say ‘hi’, ‘hello’ or bring any topic to start talking to her.

2. Talk about a common interest

It doesn’t matter how different you are or what background you come from, there will always be that one thing that you both have in common. So, find out what you have in common with her and talk about it.

3. Maintain the flow

Now, to be successful in this step, you need to be very good at the first step, i.e. listen. Often, girls find guys irritating because they don’t know what they’re talking about. For instance, if she tells you that she likes to travel, you don’t say “I’m a huge fan of Michael Jordan.” That’s not relevant at all. So, listen carefully to what she’s talking about and reply to her with an appropriate statement.

Also Read: 7 Simple Creative Ways to Show Love Without Saying I Love You

How to talk to a girl you like if you are shy 

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Being shy in front of a girl that you like is nothing to be embarrassed about, guys. It’s totally fine and natural to be shy when talking to a girl you like, most of us are. 

So, here are the 3 tricks for shy guys to talk to a girl you like:

1. Practice with strangers

If you’re too shy to talk to a girl you like, you can’t just directly go and talk to her. For that, you need to do some practice. So, whenever you find any stranger in a store, bus, or park, try to engage in a small conversation with them. This will help you overcome your shyness and increase your confidence.

2. Address your shyness

Most of the guys don’t know this but girls find it attractive when a guy admits his weakness. The goal here is not to hide your shyness but to show it to her. You can say something like “I’m sorry, I’m nervous when I meet new people.” Or even add a hidden compliment by saying, “I’m always nervous when I’m around a pretty girl.”

3. Be yourself

When guys feel shy around a girl they like, they tend to act or pretend to be someone they’re not. Although you’re shy, don’t think of it as your weakness, instead, try to embrace it and be yourself. Remember that you’ve got nothing to prove to her, just show her your normal self. 

How to talk to a girl you like (FAQs)

How can you start a conversation with a girl?

Go up to the girl you want to start a conversation with, smile, and say hello. Tell her your name and ask for hers. Keep it simple. A genuine, polite greeting beats a cheesy pick-up line any day.

What is the first message to send a girl?

Your first message should make a simple introduction, express your interest in her profile, ask one or two long-game questions about things you share in common, and then simply sign-off with your name. A couple of lines or a paragraph or two is great.

How do I talk to a stranger girl?

If you’re approaching a girl in person, give her a warm smile, and read her body language to see if she seems ready to talk. Then strike up a conversation about where you are, ask her friendly questions, make her laugh, and leave her wanting more by asking for her contact information.

How do I impress a girl?

  1. Compliment her positivity. 
  2. Ask for advice
  3. Compliment the way she looks
  4. Open doors
  5. Ask her questions
  6. Ignore your phone
  7. Socialize with her friends
  8. Help her with her coat
  • What should I text a girl I like?
  1. Compliment Her
  2. Say Sweet Things to Her
  3. Show her your good traits, instead of telling her
  4. Feel free to joke with her, but stay away from inappropriate jokes
  5. Remember things she tells you about herself (family, job, experiences)
  6. Don’t rely only on teasing her to keep her attention.

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